Sleep -- The Quintessential Bodybuilder
I considered it a good sign when I awoke to find my cup of Sleepy Time tea on the night stand, full and untouched. It proves I didn't need it, right? I fell asleep before I could drink it. OK, but I hate to waste a good herbal remedy. So when this happened again, I decided to change the game.
I made a tasty shake with the tea -- something I would be sure to drink before I fell asleep. My problem with night-time tea is it doesn't taste that great. Especially valerian root, the most effective sleep tea. It's horrible tasting but it works if you drink it. So I poured it in the blender, added fresh blueberries and honey and threw in some tofu and a few cashews to make it Zone proper (an homage to Barry Sears -- I still follow his teachings to balance hormone and insulin levels.)
Well, this morning I woke up after trying the shake for the first time and I can tell you for sure, it works. I had an especially strenuous workout yesterday and I feel very well rested today. I slept for 10 hours, got up, fixed a good breakfast of chick pea waffles and wrote this blog post -- something I haven't done in months.
I'm at that tricky stage in my exercise routine where I've lost a lot of weight and I'm transitioning from cardio to resistance training. It's new territory and that means trial and error. Which means mistakes will happen and that makes it easier go astray or even give up at a crucial stage. I've done it several times before. Does this sound familiar? You get to your goal weight and there is nothing more to do so you celebrate with a pizza and some chocolate cake. Something snaps and you're on your way back to binge eating. It only takes one or two slips to start the downward spiral and if you don't have a good support system, you're almost sure to backslide. The pounds return, you fall into bad habits, start watching TV and skipping workouts, and there goes all your hard work.
When you transition to lifting, the strong endorphin rush from cardio workouts that kept you going during the weight loss phase isn't there to motivate you any longer. You need another source of motivation. Resistance training is frustrating since you don't see gains right away. Your weight begins to creep up, which could be a sign that you're building muscle, but your whole reward system is based on seeing it go down, so that is disorienting. If you don't have a workout partner and a well planned routine for each day, you can get lost in the novelty of all the machines and equipment. You do three sets of workarounds and then take a shower. What happens? You get clean, but you don't get strong. Eventually you get discouraged.
What does this have to do with sleep? I have found that sleep is the thing that falls through the cracks when I transition from weight loss to muscle building. In my enthusiasm to maintain the momentum I acquired by achieving the weight loss, I give the lifting everything I have. I want to see some results because I know I live on feedback. Soon I'm over-training which shows up as sleeplessness irritability and a net loss of strength. What could be more disappointing?
When this let-down is accompanied by another disappointing life experience like job loss or relationship trouble, depression can set in before you recognize it. If you can't see the problem, you can't solve the problem. I've gone through this self defeating response to success several times. It always happens when I'm in the best shape of my life. It may be the cockiness that comes with new levels of achievement. It may be the dizzying array of new possibilities that present themselves when you begin to look and feel successful. Or it may be something more basic and physiological, like sleep. There is something that happens when you lose weight and then move on with your life. Looking back at my own pattern of reaction to weight loss success, I now see that what I need to do during the transition to lifting is lift less and sleep more.
You don't build muscle in the gym; you build muscle in your sleep. Who knew? The muscle tissue that you delicately shred with heavy lifting repairs itself best during deep restful rem sleep. This kind of sleep is getting more and more elusive for most people, but you can get if you follow some general guidelines. The ones I follow are at the bottom of this post with the recipe for a tasty sleep shake.
It's too early to tell if the focus on rest is going to work for me this time. I just made my goal weight a few weeks ago and I'm holding steady at 172 pounds as I lift more weight each week. But I am sleeping better now and I'm aware of the pitfalls that sabotaged my progress in the past when I made it to the mountaintop of weight loss. The first time I was in good shape I maxed out at a bench press of 185 pounds and then lost my job and had to watch TV and eat all day for a few years to recover. The next time I was in good shape, I got a tiny part as an extra in a movie and made friends online with a tight group of misfits who worship a sex nerd in LA. I liked it so much I packed up and moved to California. It turns out that life isn't like the movies and websites. It took me about two years to recover from that catastrophe and there have been some big ripples between the two tsunamis.
I'm retired now and have no job to lose, so that won't happen. I have no relationship to screw up, so that isn't a problem. My worst threat now seems to be something just taking shape on the periphery of my awareness, like the returning ghost of an old girlfriend or some new dangerous hobby, maybe the folly of another dream come true or the blindness I just warned you about. Whether you're losing weight or building muscle, sooner or later you will set a goal and achieve it. When that time comes, my advice would be to keep showing up at the gym, remember to set a new goal, and give some thought to the quality of your sleep.
Sleep Guidelines:
- Finish your workout before noon.
- Consume your caffeine before 3 pm.
- If you're tired, don't nap -- just do nothing in a scenic place.
- Go to bed at the same time every night.
- Use your bedroom only for sleep and sex.
- Have a small snack at bed time, like a sleep shake.
Bed Time Sleep Shake
- 1 cup of valerian tea
- (Nighty Night, Sleepy Time, Well Rested, any brand will do)
- 4 0z of firm tofu
- 1/2 cup blueberries
- 4 cashews
- 1 teaspoon of honey
- Blend & drink before bed.

